Seven things to think about before entering a relationship
You may feel you have dated every conceivable person, and now you have finally met someone who you have clicked with. You’ve been on a few dates and feel that this time around, you have found someone that you want to have a relationship with. We take a look at some things you should think about before you do this.
Are you ready?
Some people fall into a relationship accidentally, or they’re ‘bored’ and therefore looking to hook up with anyone, they’ve come out of a difficult relationship or painful breakup, has a lot of emotional baggage with them or out of jealousy. None of these are a good reason to enter a relationship.
Do you really know them?
Apart from the dates you have been on and what they have told you, how much do you really know about them? Do you have friends that know him so you can find out whether they are right for you or in fact a raging psycho? Dig deeper - find out who they are, where they live, whether they depend on parents etc.
Are you being practical?
Do you understand the person and have the same goals? Are you aware of their good and bad traits? He may be drop dead gorgeous, but lust doesn’t last long, so don’t brush the negative things aside and realize that if your heading down different paths in your lives, it’s likely not to last.
Are your values the same?
A relationship has a better chance of doing the distance if a couple have the same core beliefs and values, as this is what essentially a person’s decisions and actions are based on. Despite people saying opposites attract, this isn’t necessarily the case, and you are likely to find yourselves at loggerheads and clashing.
What do they do?
Now we are saying that you should go out with someone because of what their career is or how much money they make. However it is may be necessary to find out whether they have a job or whether they are deep in debt. It sounds over the top, but there have been stories in the papers about women being scammed, plus you don’t want to have to dig someone out of their debts, especially at the beginning of a relationship, or constantly bank roll them. It could also indicate that they are idle or have no motivation or even desire to find a job.
Is it a positive thing?
A relationship should make you deliriously happy, put a spring in your step and a constant grin on your face, well especially in the initial stages anyway. It should be something that adds value to your life and be a positive thing. Don’t let someone bring in negativity to your life or be negative about you.
Do you trust this person?
Admittedly trust is something that a person earns and grows over time, but trust is the basic of every relationship. Do you trust this person you want to get into a relationship with? Do you feel safe with them? Do you trust that they will treat you right? Having this basic trust will allow the relationship to flourish.
Friday, December 3, 2010
Sunday, November 14, 2010
What a day!
Actually planned to have morning breakfast with the family @ Macdonalds. Happened that I still sleeping when it's already 10am, so plan cancelled. And mom's gonna go to Grandma's house with my sisters, so I thought I meet my friends then, to the Anime Fair. So I texted lizhen and dris that let's meet up at 1.30pm @ City Hall. Then I went back to sleep. There was an arguement between my sisters so ended up one of them decided to stay at home. But too late, I cannot back up my friend so no choice have to leave her at home. I was sleeping so soundly, was too lazy to get up. I texted my friends again, said we meet later abit, at about 2.30pm :p luckily they were okay with it. I woke up at 1pm and left home at 2.05pm. When I took train, it's already 2.15pm. I only got 15mins to reach City Hall! It had about 9 stops! Bloody Hell~ But I was late for only 5mins. Which I think its ok because Im someone who meant to be late and not punctual type :p
Ok, so we walked a long distance to the Anime Convention. Wow, there's alot of people around. And I saw some female cosplayers near the walking area already. I was complaining there that I do not want to see the girls, I wanna see guys!!! And I was hoping to see Kakashi from Naruto!~ So we went up to level 4 I guessed...Start queuing. Halfway, one guy asked us to follow his colleague to buy the ticket from another booth as to shorten the queue. ok, after bought the ticket @ $8, we went into the convention hall. Wow, alot of display materials, items, equipments, clothings, keychains, files, pillows, even a maid cafe! But I wasnt really interested with the items they selling. I just wanna see cosplayers. Which is not really alot that I known of. We took alot of pictures of the displays and anything that captured our sight. Total pictures taken from my phone is 144. And I was very mad with those stupid people walking infront of me when they saw me taking photos. I was like FUCK OFF IM TAKING PHOTO! but well, no point scolding stupid people :p
After walking round and round, tired with the photo taking, we left and had a walk outside. Outside has more cosplayers. We managed to took some pictures. Then we walked past a convention hall. All the cosplayers were hiding there! No wonder we don't see alot in the convention we were in. We went in, walked rounds and rounds to take pictures of the cosplayers. Out of so many cosplayers, except for females, one that caught my attention is one guy who cosplayed as Ichigo Kurosaki from Bleach. He is kinda good looking, sweet looking. Which I had never seen any good looking cosplayer around before. I wanted to took a picture with him, but I was too shy to stand beside her, so I dropped the idea. Luckily, my friends managed to took some decent good pictures of him. hehe :p
After all the walking, we were so hungry! Especially me! Coz I didnt have my breakfast and lunch! So we went to a Ramen Shop since their ramens were quite cheap. So I approached the ordering counter, the girl didnt even greet or smile. She just said: "Want you want?" in mandarin. I was like what the....So I told her: "One kimchi chicken ramen". She was like HUH??? I repeated my order. Then I took her I want a can of Coke too. She said: "Yi ge bai shi?" I stunned for awhile, thinking wtf she is talking. Then I realised she meant Pepsi. So I said ok one pepsi then. Why the fuck she cannot make order in English? That fucking shop is all China people!~~ My goodness! Their service is bad! So bad! But food is nice LOL. So I don't mind going there again.
Then we went to Tampines Mall. Coz I wanna pierce ear! We went to the shop. We were hanging outside the shop. Thinking want to pierce or not. Coz we saw the assistant is a guy =.= My friend was like huh guy ah, dowan la. zzzz. Then we went toilet. Come out, go back to the shop again. Again, thinking want or not...My friend drag me in...TO ASK THE GUY == ok, I asked him, then he did the piercing for me. My friend at there, ah he pierced ah. The guy then asked her to remove her studs so he can have a more accurate making and aiming. She can't have it removed so she don't want to pierce == I was like . . . . NVM then we went to Timezone! WEEE I get a card for it LOL...We played Guitar Hero....Tho it will be a fun one. I tried on it. THEN FUCK IT, I cant sync my movements LOL I gave up half way passed it to my friend let her continue haha...We then played car racing, as usual, I always got last. Played shooting games like Time Crisis, and one like in army, need to shoot down all enemies. That was very fun! We managed to play all the stages. Of course we spent a few dollars LOL. We also played basketball. My solo record of 100 points haha. Arms so tired after that. After that we went home, bought Filet O Fish meal for sis, took buys 72 home. Journey was 1 hour. I already having giddy spell and was kinda hungry. Feel like vomitting also. Then went get off from the bus, I quickly eat some fries from my sis's dinner LOL. Feel like hypo already. In the end, I ate one whole cheese pizza, abit of duck porridge left since morning, and some pastries mom bought.
Ok, so we walked a long distance to the Anime Convention. Wow, there's alot of people around. And I saw some female cosplayers near the walking area already. I was complaining there that I do not want to see the girls, I wanna see guys!!! And I was hoping to see Kakashi from Naruto!~ So we went up to level 4 I guessed...Start queuing. Halfway, one guy asked us to follow his colleague to buy the ticket from another booth as to shorten the queue. ok, after bought the ticket @ $8, we went into the convention hall. Wow, alot of display materials, items, equipments, clothings, keychains, files, pillows, even a maid cafe! But I wasnt really interested with the items they selling. I just wanna see cosplayers. Which is not really alot that I known of. We took alot of pictures of the displays and anything that captured our sight. Total pictures taken from my phone is 144. And I was very mad with those stupid people walking infront of me when they saw me taking photos. I was like FUCK OFF IM TAKING PHOTO! but well, no point scolding stupid people :p
After walking round and round, tired with the photo taking, we left and had a walk outside. Outside has more cosplayers. We managed to took some pictures. Then we walked past a convention hall. All the cosplayers were hiding there! No wonder we don't see alot in the convention we were in. We went in, walked rounds and rounds to take pictures of the cosplayers. Out of so many cosplayers, except for females, one that caught my attention is one guy who cosplayed as Ichigo Kurosaki from Bleach. He is kinda good looking, sweet looking. Which I had never seen any good looking cosplayer around before. I wanted to took a picture with him, but I was too shy to stand beside her, so I dropped the idea. Luckily, my friends managed to took some decent good pictures of him. hehe :p
After all the walking, we were so hungry! Especially me! Coz I didnt have my breakfast and lunch! So we went to a Ramen Shop since their ramens were quite cheap. So I approached the ordering counter, the girl didnt even greet or smile. She just said: "Want you want?" in mandarin. I was like what the....So I told her: "One kimchi chicken ramen". She was like HUH??? I repeated my order. Then I took her I want a can of Coke too. She said: "Yi ge bai shi?" I stunned for awhile, thinking wtf she is talking. Then I realised she meant Pepsi. So I said ok one pepsi then. Why the fuck she cannot make order in English? That fucking shop is all China people!~~ My goodness! Their service is bad! So bad! But food is nice LOL. So I don't mind going there again.
Then we went to Tampines Mall. Coz I wanna pierce ear! We went to the shop. We were hanging outside the shop. Thinking want to pierce or not. Coz we saw the assistant is a guy =.= My friend was like huh guy ah, dowan la. zzzz. Then we went toilet. Come out, go back to the shop again. Again, thinking want or not...My friend drag me in...TO ASK THE GUY == ok, I asked him, then he did the piercing for me. My friend at there, ah he pierced ah. The guy then asked her to remove her studs so he can have a more accurate making and aiming. She can't have it removed so she don't want to pierce == I was like . . . . NVM then we went to Timezone! WEEE I get a card for it LOL...We played Guitar Hero....Tho it will be a fun one. I tried on it. THEN FUCK IT, I cant sync my movements LOL I gave up half way passed it to my friend let her continue haha...We then played car racing, as usual, I always got last. Played shooting games like Time Crisis, and one like in army, need to shoot down all enemies. That was very fun! We managed to play all the stages. Of course we spent a few dollars LOL. We also played basketball. My solo record of 100 points haha. Arms so tired after that. After that we went home, bought Filet O Fish meal for sis, took buys 72 home. Journey was 1 hour. I already having giddy spell and was kinda hungry. Feel like vomitting also. Then went get off from the bus, I quickly eat some fries from my sis's dinner LOL. Feel like hypo already. In the end, I ate one whole cheese pizza, abit of duck porridge left since morning, and some pastries mom bought.
Friday, November 12, 2010
Something New
Wednesday, November 10, 2010
Tuesday, November 9, 2010
It's finally November 10th!
Can't wait for the new Maplestory Dual Blade that is lauching today! Been waiting for this day. Now for the new patch. hehe. Hope it will be a fun one.
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